Una boda con la gripe
On Saturday night i went to a funeral. And a wedding. In that order. I hiked up a hill satuday afternoon for a picnic, and by the time i returned i felt somewhat ill. I thought maybe it was because I had gotten too much sun. I had been invited to attend a neighbor´s wedding that night and didn´t want to miss the opprortunity. So i put on my one skirt and nice shirt and got assurance from my host mother that the wedding was "just around the corner and we´re just going to eat dinner really quick and come right home, and you can walk home at anytime if you´d like". So i pulled myself out of bed, got in the car and set off for the wedding. They had told me that the wedding was a civil wedding, so when we arrived at the local church i was rather confused. They explained that we were just going to a really short mass first. An hour and a half later, i found myself still standing in the back of the church, dizzy and very definitely feverish, as a mob of people slowly pushed their way out the doors. A very small Mayan woman in traditional dress kept resting her hands on my ass. I could not understand how it could take anybody so long to leave a building until twenty minutes later when i finally emerged from the building and found myself proceeding down a long receiving line of men and women dressed in black. I was at a funeral! Actually a memorial service after a funeral, but pushed along through the line i found myself offering "lo sientos" to a lot of unsuspecting strangers. My fever rose.
We made it two the wedding about 2 and a hald hours after leaving the house. The huge banquet hall was filled with men dancing this dance that is traditional to this area. It essentially involves a few steps forward (very slow steps), a few steps backwards (slower still), and a nod of the head. Then the women line up and do the same dance. But they wear way cooler clothes.
We ate Pepian and drank whiskey and coke and my fever rose. Then i drank tea and my fever rose some more. When i woke up the next morning it was 102. I had la gripe. But that was one interesting funeral/wedding. Someone gave the couple a stove with a big bow on it. And midway through the party the kids got to take down all of the baloons and pop them.


